How to get active (when you really don’t feel like it).

 

May is here, and Mental Health Awareness Week is just around the corner, running from the 13th to the 19th. This year’s theme, set by the Mental Health Foundation, is “Movement – Moving more for our mental health”.

We all know how important movement is for our mental well-being, but many of us struggle to make it a part of our daily lives. Whether it’s due to busy schedules, not knowing where to start, or just struggling to build up the motivation to brush off the trainers, the barriers can feel daunting.

Living with depression and anxiety can also make it hard to get out and get active. For some just getting out of bed can prove exhausting and for others, the thought of stepping into a busy gym when you don’t entirely know what you are doing, can be a major anxiety trigger.

The thing is….exercise is one of the vital components to boosting mental health and wellbeing. It can help to release feel good hormones, boost self esteem and confidence, reduce tension, stress and anxiety, calm the mind and even help you to connect with those around you.

So, how do you get active when your mind is doing everything it can to wrestle you out of that gym gear and back under the covers to hide away from the world?!

Start small, start at home, just start somewhere!

You don’t need a big fancy gym membership to get active and you don’t need to run a marathon to feel the mental health benefits of movement. Jogging on the spot whilst you wait for the kettle to boil is a great place to start!

Get up and move around if you work at a computer all day, or just incorporate a few stretches first thing in the morning, or last thing at night. Every little counts.

The average adult should aim for 150 minutes of exercise a week, so use this as your target and set small, realistic goals to get yourself there. Once you’ve figured out a regular exercise schedule that suits you, try to increase the time that you are doing it week by week.

Think about the exercise that might help you the most

Different exercises help us to cope with different situations. Yoga is a wonderful tool to help manage anxiety, running is a great stress buster and walking in the fresh air is an excellent way to help improve sleep quality and fight depression.

Workout in your living room

For many, the thought of walking through the doors of the gym, or taking part in a class, is enough to make the stomach churn. Fear not! You Tube and home workout apps are a fantastic way to enter the world of fitness in your front room! Here are a few of our favourites:

Yoga with Adrienne (You Tube)

Adriene Mishler is an international yoga teacher, actress, writer, and entrepreneur on a mission to make tools for mental, emotional, and physical health accessible for all. Her sessions are easy to follow and she has a wonderfully calming voice. Benji the dog often joins her as she talks the audience through everything from runner’s yoga, to yoga for stress, yoga for weight loss, or one of her thirty day programmes. She ensures that her videos are manageable for all, providing alternative moves for newbies. The best part is that her videos are absolutely free and easy to fit into any kind of schedule.

Disney Dance Workout (You Tube)

Kyra Pro is a LEG…END! If you want to inject a bit of fun into getting fit then Kyra’s amazing dance workouts are made for you! Sweat it out with Kyra to Disney soundtracks, The Greatest Showman and Mamma Mia and start your day not only feeling fit, but frankly feeling pretty fab as well! Find Kyra on YouTube.

FitOn (App)

FitOn is a fantastic FREE app that offers a range of premium app workouts. There’s plenty of streaming classes available to do in the comfort of your own home from yoga and Pilates to HIIT, barre and cardio. If you’re prepared to pay a little then there is an option to upgrade, however as part of a start off fitness programme the free platform is perfect.

Couch to 5k (App)

The Couch to 5K app is for absolute running beginners and helps you to build up your running stamina slowly and surely.

Track your progress

Tracking your progress can literally help you keep on track!! (Funny that!!). MyFitness Pal is a great free app to start with, or just keep a movement journal and jot down what you’ve done and for how long. At the very least it will help you to see if you’ve reached the recommended goal of 150 minutes of exercise for the week.

Make sure to celebrate each goal that you set yourself.

Failure shouldn’t be feared

Sometimes it’s really easy to give up if you find you aren’t enjoying something and then, in turn, to see that as a failure at getting fit.

All it means is that you haven’t found your groove yet. Try moving to a different form of exercise until you find something that you really enjoy.

How to maintain social connections when you are struggling with your mental health.

 

Managing social connections when you are struggling with your mental health can be really tough, but they are crucial for your support and overall well-being. We’ve put together some strategies to help you stay connected.

  • Communicate honestly

Talk to your loved ones. Tell them how you are feeling and what you have been going through. Enabling them to understand the situation will help them to support you.

  • Choose supportive relationships

We all have relationships that can be unhealthy- perhaps an overly critical friend or an unsupportive family member. It’s okay to take a step back from those relationships whilst you are feeling low. Surround yourself with people who will listen without judgement, that make you laugh, or are just good to talk to.

  • Set realistic expectations

Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t face loud and busy social situations. Swap them instead for quieter interactions with trusted friends. Make sure to communicate your limits to friends and family.

  • Use Technology

If you can’t face the pressure of face-to-face interactions, then why not use text messaging, video chats or social media to stay in touch with loved ones.

  • Join support groups or seek help

Tough Enough To Care run a number of mental health support groups. Why not see if there’s one in your area https://toughenoughtocare.help/support-groups/ . Alternatively your GP can help to point you in the right direction. www.hubofhope.co.uk can also help to locate support services in your area. Groups are attended by people who are in a similar situation to you and can understand how you are feeling.

 

 

Four Mental Wellness Tips

 Find ways to relax

Sleep is one of the most important tools we can have in our armoury when it comes to improving mental wellbeing. However, we all know how hard it is to sleep when you can’t switch off. Finding ways to relax before bedtime will help to improve sleep quality.

Relaxation is a personal journey and what works for one person might not for another, but if you are struggling to know where to start here are some ideas to try:

Digital Detox

Ditch the screens and disconnect from the digital world a few hours before bedtime to help give your mind a break.

  • Yoga and meditation

There’s hundreds of yoga videos on You Tube and some great apps like Headspace to help you get to grips with meditation. Just a short session can help you to relax and unwind.

  • Hot tea or a warm bath

Herbal teas, in particular a Camomile tea can help you to relax at bedtime. Indulging in a warm bath can also help you to unwind after a long day, soothing aches and pains that might otherwise interrupt sleep.

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Give yourself a break

If you are feeling overwhelmed and stressed out, try to take a break. Step away from the task in hand and get outside, take a tea break, or speak to a trusted friend.

 

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Focus on the present

Mindfulness is a wonderful way to help you relax and reduce anxiety. It can take a little while to master, but one of the easiest mindful activities to help curb an anxiety spiral is The Name Game. Simply name three things you can see, two things you can hear and one thing you can feel.

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Look after yourself

Looking after yourself means eating regularly and as healthily as possible, drinking plenty of water, getting regular exercise and generally nurturing your physical health.

Exercise can help to release “feel-good” endorphins, whilst a good diet can help improve energy levels and sleep.